Things I am building.

Practice.

Slowly. Mostly badly. Mostly in public.

This page is where the becoming actually happens. Each card below is a practice I am working on — sometimes for the first time, sometimes for the hundredth. The honest version, not the highlight reel. Most months I add one new entry to each. Think of it as the closest thing on this site to my actual private notebook.

Yoga

since 2024 · daily

I have been holding too much in my body for too long. Working towards a 200-hour teacher training in Sept 2026, and beyond it, towards teaching, not just practising.

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Photography

since Apr 2026 · weekly walks

Because I forgot what I had seen. The camera is a small device that makes you slow down for long enough to actually look. I am learning composition, light, and the discipline of not deleting photos before I have looked at them properly.

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Badminton

started May 2026 · daily

Because leaving parts of me as I grew into the role of a wife and mother meant I was becoming someone else while also missing my old self. I want to feel stronger. 34 is not late.

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Carnatic vocal

first class · Aug 2026

My voice is more capable than I have allowed it to be. Letting it take form into melody instantly makes me feel better. Singing out of tune is not an option.

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Business analytics

since Apr 2026 · ExcelR

My marketing work is good. But reporting and data storytelling are not. Brushing up on business acumen and BI visualisations — SQL, Power BI — to tell those stories myself, not lean on AI charts.

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Parenting & systems

12 years · ongoing

Not a parenting influencer. Raising a 12-year-old as a single mother taught me how strong I can be — and how badly I needed systems. Sharing what works, for any single parent reading.

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Untying

since Oct 2025 · in progress

It is easy to take sides. It is harder to stay centred and think of both humans, the child, the whole institution. Some of this work is too tender for the internet — I will share only what is mine to share, and what might be useful to another woman in this exact moment.

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Writing

since 2005 · the constant

Started as a diary writer in 2005 because my thoughts were too loud and it felt unsafe to share with any human. I have always been a writer who paused when she didn’t feel like writing. Trying to break that — in public.

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These cards get updated weekly. Mostly on Saturday or Sunday — while everyone is partying, I am slowly building a corner of my own world that preserves parts of my life that might otherwise never make it online.